Saturday, 17 December 2022

History of Christmas Tree

Adopted from a post from The Conversation - post of 17th December 2022.

The Christmas tree might not seem like a tradition older than the holiday itself. But as Texas A&M historian Troy Bickham explains, erecting evergreen plants during winter solstice celebrations is a ritual that predates Christianity. When Christmas became a holiday, the practice was simply adapted – and even then, really took place only among Protestants.

It was only in the 19th century that the ritual became popularized. England had an outsize influence on middle-class culture in the English-speaking world, and Bickham tells the story of how an image of Queen Victoria and her tree went viral, launching a tradition that has now become commonplace around the world – even in places where Christianity isn’t the dominant religion.

Sunday, 20 November 2022

Indian Institute of Science, Bangalore


The Indian industrialist Jamshedji Nusserwanji Tata was once travelling to Germany.

As he stood there, at the door of his First Class Cabin in the Steam-liner, he noticed a lot of activity on the lower decks of the Ship. 

On enquiring,
he learnt that a great Indian Saint Swami Vivekananda was on board the same ship.

Out of genuine respect and curiosity J.N. Tata decided to pay a visit to the great saint.

Swami Vivekananda had of course heard about the respected industrialist.

As the conversation grew J.N. Tata explained that he was on his way to Germany. "I have with me sacks of soil from various parts of India. I am taking these samples of soil to Germany. I wish to know if Iron can be extracted profitably from any of these districts," said J.N. Tata to the Saint.

To which Swami Vivekananda replied, "Well, Sir, Even if these sacks contain Iron-rich soil, do you honestly believe that the Germans will tell you the TRUTH???
You must understand that No / NONE of the European Nations wish to see a Strong /Steel-Rich / Economically Independent India. The soil is probably rich in Iron-ore but the sad truth is all you will get from your enquiries across Europe is Disbelief and Pessimistic reactions."

Needless to say, having interacted with several Europeans J.N. Tata knew this to be true. 

Swami Vivekananda continued,
"Why don't you start an excellent / up-to-date Research Facility and College here in India???
Why don't you train some good Indian Youngsters to identify soil and conduct these tests and find ways of profitably extracting metals??? It may seem like a wasteful, burdensome expenditure right now. But in the long run- It will save you many trips to Europe and you can have the assurance of knowing the Truth quickly- rather than taking multiple opinions due to Doubt".

As he could clearly sense J.N. Tata's mood was in acquiescence he further elaborated,

 "Seek an audience with the Maharaja of Mysore H.R.H. Wodeyar. Though a subordinate of the British, he will definitely help you in every way he can............
.....H.R.H. Wodeyar has been generous enough to sponsor my own trip to Chicago to attend the Parliament of Religions".

As soon as he returned to India, J.N. Tata headed straight for Mysore.

And indeed H.R.H. Chamraja Wodeyar did Not disappoint him. The King granted 370 acres of land for the setting up of the Research Facility and College that J.N. Tata had envisioned and it
was named,

THE INDIAN INSTITUTE OF SCIENCE

When Two Great Brains Interact, They Come out with solutions for the Nation and for Generations to get benefitted.

Thank you Mr. Tata and Swami Vivekananda for
one of the greatest contributions by them in India. 

Thursday, 17 November 2022

Life Position

The child is born free, but he soon learns different. During the first two years he is pro- gramed mainly by his mother. This program forms the original skeleton, or anlage, of his script, the 'primal protocol,' at first con- cerned with swallowing or being swallowed, and then, when he gets teeth, with tearing or being torn. It is being a hammer or being an anvil, as Goethe put it, the most primitive versions of being a winner or being a loser, as seen in Greek myths and Primal Rituals, where children are devoured and the limbs of the poet lie scattered on the ground. Even in the nursery, it is often already apparent who is in control, the mother or the baby. This may be reversed sooner or later, but echoes of the original situation can still be heard in times of stress or temper. But very few peo- ple can remember anything from this period, which in many ways is the most important, so it has to be reconstructed with the help of parents, relatives, nursemaids, and pedia- tricians, conjectures made about dreams, and perhaps the family album.

Monday, 7 November 2022

Link to workshop

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/ta-techniques-for-effecting-script-cure-ajit-karve-tickets-427736008917?aff=ebdsoporgprofile](https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/ta-techniques-for-effecting-script-cure-ajit-karve-tickets-427736008917?aff=ebdsoporgprofile)

Friday, 4 November 2022

Pain

The pain of stubbing a toe and that experienced by being insulted, hurt, pained, or the pain of remorse and guilt is similar and felt equally intensely. Because they affect the same area of our brain. To know more read the article at the link below :

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/body-sense/201204/emotional-and-physical-pain-activate-similar-brain-regions

Medicine is now available if it is intense pain. 

Thursday, 27 October 2022

I am That

I am that. Signature statement of Nisargadatta Maharaj.
Explained by Papaji (Harivanvsh Lal Poonja) on how Ramana Maharshi put forth resulting in the liberation of Papaji.



What appears and dis-appears is not real.
You saw him (Krishna), he dis-appeared. You remained. The seer remained. Now find out who the seer is? The real seer is beyond all this. The seer is the abiding source and substance of all that exists. It is called the self. It has nothing to do with mind or the personality. It is the continuous presence that abides timelessly and formlessly as the real nature and heart of all beings. We live in the illusion that we exist overlooking the abiding presence. Directing the mind to the source. This is the enquiry to be pursued. Get the mind to face the source. What is mind? Thought. What is thought. I. Let the I face the source. Now this facing the source is called enquiry. Now the I is facing the source. Just like mirror, reflecting. When you look at a mirror, what do you see? Our reflection. When we keep aside the mirror, where does the reflection go? Back to the face. No this I was enquiring from its own source which was reflected to the mind mind to the senses, senses to the body and body to the objects. So this universe. So this is the method of Ramana Maharshi. Striking at the root of the mind. Other kinds of practices are with the mind. Result will be mental. Or with yoga, physical. By striking at the root of mind, mind is no more. So by getting the I to face its source. The I merges with the source. It becomes that. Thus the man will experience the ever abiding freedom.

For interview of which this is a transcript see this YouTube Video.

https://youtu.be/k-7Iip6lk8Q


Monday, 24 October 2022

Significance of Diwali Days


🎊⛩️🌹 Happy Diwali 🌹⛩️🎊

Diwali is festival of lights held over seven days from the 11th day of the lunar month of Kartik to the seventeenth day. 

People wish each other the best of health, wealth, prosperity and well being during the celebrities.

Names of the festival days are:

Rama Ekadashi
Vasu Baras
Dhana Tryodashi
Narak Chathurdashi
Laxmi Poojan
Bali Pratipada and
Bhaubeej Dwitiya

The significance of each of the days is now mentioned.

Rama Ekadashi : People keep fast on Rama Ekadashi to wash off sins of past acts.

Vasu Baras : Women keep fast on Vasu Baras and worship cows. They also perform puja for Lord Krishna and seek the blessings of the lord for the longevity and prosperity of their families.

Dhanatrayodashi : Dhantrayodashi is the first day of the five-day Diwali festivities. The popular belief is that on the day of Dhanteras, Dhanvantari and Goddess Lakshmi, who is worshipped for wealth and prosperity emerged during the churning of the celestial ocean.

Narak Chaturdashi : Narak chaturdashi is celebrated by lighting lights to welcome fore fathers to guide them and remove obstacles from their life.

Laxmi Poojan : Laxmi Poojan is held to honor Goddess Lakshmi to bring wealth and prosperity to the family in the future. People wear new traditional clothes and ornaments on this occasion.

Bali Pratipada : Bali Pratipada  commemorates the annual return of Mahabali to earth and the victory of Vamana – one of many creative incarnations of Vishnu to  mark the victory of Vishnu over Mahabali and all asuras.

Bhaubeej : Bhaubeej is celebrated when ladies invite their brothers to visit their place and prepare their beloved dishes for them. Sisters also pray to God for the well-being and longevity of their brothers against all the evils and bad fortune.

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Parents invite married ladies home so that they can participate in the Diwali festivities. It is also believed that they bring 'Laxmi - wealth, good fortune and prosperity' with them when they do so.

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There is also a tradition of Deep Daan during Kartik month, the lunar month in which Diwali is celebrated. Here is a short write up on significance of Deep Daan दीप दान.

Importance of lamp donation in Kartik

  • It is said that the person who donates a Akhand lamp near Shrikeshav in the month of Kartik, becomes full of divine radiance.
  • Those who light the lamps kept by others in the temple of Shri Hari in the month of Kartik, they do not have to suffer hell. It is said that a mouse had taken a rare human birth by lighting a lamp kept by others on Kartik Ekadashi.
  • Donation of earth along with the ocean and donating millions of cows with calves is not even equal to a fraction of the sixteenth fraction of donating a shikhar lamp above the Vishnu temple. By donating a lamp in the Shikhar or Hari Mandir, the hundred-kul is saved. 
  • Those who with devotion only visit the Jyoti-Deepti Vishnu temple in the month of Kartik, there is no hell in their family. 
  • The gods also wish for the company of the person who donates lamps in the house of Vishnu. 
  • In the month of Kartik, by lighting the temple of Vishnu with lamps, right in the game itself, he gains wealth, fame, fame and seven clans become holy. 
  • Put ghee / sesame oil in an earthen lamp and light the lamp till Kartik Purnima, it will definitely benefit.

Friday, 21 October 2022

The life of postmen in the West

I have to be careful what I write here but I can't hold in my thoughts anymore.

I've been a postman now for 16 and a half years, serving the community I've worked in for over 10 of those years. 
In this moment in time, us posties are in the biggest fight of our lives. Our terms and conditions aswell as the "postle worker" you know today is under threat.

It's under threat because of the greed above. They say we need to change, they say we need to compete, they say people no longer send mail and they also say we need to be more like "amazon" or other parcel couriers. If this is true, the positive role I've pride myself on over these years will no longer exist !

Let me explain. I'm not just a guy who walks up and down the street delivering "junk mail" and parcels.
I'm that guy who know everyone of his customers, I'm that guy who knows when something ain't right in the community I work in, I'm that guy who spends time with customers when they have no-one else to talk to, to help when no-one is around to help. If there's bits they need I can and will get. If there's a pet that's got out, I know the home it belongs too. I kind of see myself more as a community warden lol than a postman. A guy that cares soo diligently about the job and role I deliver.

We're not just another courier company, we're far more than that and we'll fight to save that vital 
role we provide.
#standbyyourpost

Monday, 17 October 2022

A liberating and empowering story

At a 2019 conference, Author, Elizabeth Gilbert shared this story, The great mythologist, Joseph Campbell, who spent his entire life studying the religions of the world, was asked, “What is the definition of sacred?” and “How do human beings make something sacred?” He responded, “It’s the simplest thing in the entire world, and you do not need a priest for it, anybody can do it. Here’s how humans make something sacred: You draw a circle around it and you say everything inside this circle is holy. It’s sacred because you said so. That is called a boundary, and a boundary is not a wall. A boundary is not something that you hide behind. A boundary is a golden circle that you draw around the things that matter to you, and you say everything inside this circle is sacred. If you treat it with respect, you are allowed to come in, but take your shoes off and bow because you are coming into the center of holiness here. And if it’s not, and it’s outside, then what do we say? We say, “I do not care.”

"You get to decide what is sacred. The sacred thing inside the circle can be your time, your creativity, your loved ones, your privacy, your recovery, your values, your mental health, your activism, your joy, your very heart and soul. You yourself can stand at the center of a scared circle that you drew around YOUR VERY OWN BEING, and say,”Everything inside this circle is holy.” Not because you think you’re better than anyone else, but because you have humbly accepted stewardship over the divine and mysterious gift of the universe that is YOU."

Via Courtney Carver : Be More With Less

Thursday, 13 October 2022

The Empirical Self

For James, the spiritual self was who we are at our core. It is more concrete or permanent than the other two selves. The spiritual self is our subjective and most intimate self. Aspects of a spiritual self include things like personality, core values, and conscience that do not typically change throughout an individual's lifetime. The spiritual self involves introspection, or looking inward to deeper spiritual, moral, or intellectual questions without the influence of objective thoughts.[81] For James, achieving a high level of understanding of who we are at our core, or understanding our spiritual selves is more rewarding than satisfying the needs of the social and material selves.

Pure egoEdit

What James refers to as the "I" self. For James, the pure ego is what provides the thread of continuity between our past, present, and future selves. The pure ego's perception of consistent individual identity arises from a continuous stream of consciousness.[82] James believed that the pure ego was similar to what we think of as the soul, or the mind. The pure ego was not a substance and therefore could not be examined by science.[38]

Tuesday, 4 October 2022

TA Basic Course Feedbacks

I found the session to be life changing. 
I thank you for touching upon the very core of my personality and helping me grow as a person.
The session was superb in terms of content, delivery, pace and the simplicity of explaining the most difficult nity gritties of the entire TA.
I was amazed to learn a lot about my past relationships issues. 
I got to know simplistic understanding of TA concepts and definitions. 
I was impressed to find that you can discuss any topic and have in-depth knowledge of every topic of TA. 
You have the knack of explaining definitions with life experiences. Thereby you make it easy to understand. 
TA is such a large field. You covered its most important aspects in the limited time at your disposal. 
It is difficult to express in words but the way you explain theory using practical approach is truly unbelievable🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻


There are very few trainings that go beyond the realm of learning. They empower a new sense of belief in you and the Basic TA course with Ajit has been that for Me. 

There are very few facilitators whose knowledge and humility integrate to serve the learners and Ajit has been that for Me. 

Thank you Ajit for not an experience or a training, but a memory that will outlive Me.


The session helped me clarify my thoughts and be more precise in thinking.

It also helped me to break some myths, particularly the concept of scripts which was new for me.

Thank you so much Ajit. Iwould like to  participate in more such sessions. Gratitude 🙏🙏


The Basic Course training was excellent. I got an overall knowledge and pen picture of TA theory. I have decided to learn the theory. it is an excellent theory for personality change. As a first I will apply it in my life. I can grow and make changes in my life and I can help others as well. Your pedagogical style is excellent.  It was a blessing for me to get the chance to attend the class. It will be beneficial for me in my professional life too. I will apply it in my In my relationships as well. 
I have the don't be close injunction. I will work to come out of it. It will help me to generate cordiality, love and affection in my relationships. In depth study of TA will be helpful for my health and well being and in enjoying good mental, psychological, emotional and physical health.

Ajit, you as a 'Guru', you have immense knowledge in TA and other philosophies. I appreciate your willingness to impart the knowledge with full heart, mind and spirit to the trainees.

Learning points listed by Participant 2
Here are some very significant insights for me:

1. Script And Personality, are two sides of the same coin. 
2. The power to sublimate, not discard. 
3. Duty of the therapist is not to only treat to the patient but to help align systems and build capacity to deal with realities. 
4. Giving permission to the mind to allow itself to take the time it needs to retrieve information. 
5. OK-ness the capacity to enjoy dignity, worth, value, esteem and respect. 
6. Script goals become our destiny goals. 
7. Importance of a contract in teaching, training and clinical work 
8. The criteria of spontaneous options sane, safe, effective, appropriate and win win generating. 
9. The Moving Self Concept. 
10. Reach back and Afterburn in the context of psychological time. 
11. How expletives generate noise in communication. 
12. Ego is the organ of waiting. 
13. Awareness of the role psyche plays in distorting mind's perception. 
14. In giving there is receiving. 
15. How the strict dad and loving mom of the triplets creates three different personalities based on the choices they make in childhood.. 
16. Script free and script prone. 
17. Climb up the staircase and jump down the window. 
18. Hospitalism. 
19. Importance of Intimacy and Activity. 
20. Where is my mind when my body is here. 
21. Contributors to script. 
22. Advantages of Games. 
23. Personality rules all. People are missing. 
24. Contribution of process scripts in stoking the fire of script. 
25. People in the drama triangle are only playing drama roles.






Thursday, 18 August 2022

Profile of Ajit Karve

 

Profile of Ajit Karve

Name: Ajit Karve

Qualifications and Activities :

-          BSc (Hons.), BTA, Pursuing MTA

-          TA Psychotherapist and Researcher.

-          TA Trainer for TA Basic and Diploma Levels

-          Director Asha Institute, NIBM, Pune

-          Co Chairman, Academic Council of ICTA, Kochi

-          Formerly Associate Professor at Amplify Mindware Group of Institutions College in Bharati Vidyapeeth University, Pune

-          Author, Blogger, Networker, TA Workshops Presenter.

Professional Career:

Ajit’s  professional career spans five decades. He started off working in India’s National Security Service; Career Diplomat; and CEO of a Group of 16 Land Development Companies;

Written works, blogs, posts and reviews:

Ajit is author of four TA Books and one book on Positivity Practice; He has posted fourteen TA Blogs (made of over 300 blog posts), two blogs on Positivity Practice, one on Financial Planning and Investment, and two on Success Living; He has bagged 700K views of his posts on Quora, 5.6 million views photos and reviews on Google Maps; 

Social Work: Ajit has engaged in community Service by rendering free Psychotherapy Sessions, Experiential TA sessions, and as a guide providing free TA trainings.

Awards:: Ajit is winner of the prestigious Indian Police Medal for Meritorious Service;

Workshops Conducted:

Workshops presented on TA Topics, Conflict Resolution, Parenting, Work-Life Integration, Success Living, Goals Setting and Achieving, Team Building, Time Management, TA Game Analysis, TA Racket Analysis, TA Script Analysis and Transactional Analysis Self Therapy.


His blogs can be viewed at : https://www.blogger.com/profile/09778485483922911287

Friday, 12 August 2022

Sarcopenia Muscular Dystrophy in old age

Is your age more than 60 years?

Do people older than 60 years of age live with you?

If the answer to these two questions is yes. Then please spare 5 minutes and read this write up at least twice.

The text that follows is a translation made using an app. Please condone errors of translation.

What is Sarcopenia? Sarcopenia. Aging is characterized by a loss of skeletal muscle mass and strength. It is a terrible situation.
Title: "Use Your Functional Muscles Slowly"
  1. To get into the habit of standing ... don't just sit! ... and if you can sit, don't sleep!
  2. After age 50-60, losing weight is not possible, especially if you don't exercise and rely on eating less to lose weight! 
Why? 
Because if all the muscles are lost, it can be very dangerous!
3. Does running, cycling or climbing cause knee pain?
If you've never exercised before, all you can think of in your mind is to run, bike or climb because it will hurt your knees! But, if you have enough muscle strength and get into the habit of running, cycling and climbing slowly, it can be a good exercise and won't hurt your knees! Whether your knees hurt or not depends on your muscle strength!
4. If an elderly person is sick and hospitalized, don't tell them to rest more ... or lie down and rest and don't get out of bed!
Lying down for a week causes at least 5% muscle loss!
And the old man can't get his muscles back!
5. Don't think you are filial by not letting the elders do the housework and scold them if the maids do!
Usually, many older people who hire helpers lose muscle quickly!
6. Don't just do one activity every day when you go to the park.
Don't only move your arms when you can move your legs too. You must also pull the horizontal bar or move each sports equipment!
Because as long as a person moves, all the muscles of the entire body are involved!
Many elderly people have trouble swallowing due to insufficient exercise!
In the end, they couldn't even cough up a mouthful of spit and they died because of it!
7. Sarcopenia is scarier than osteoporosis!
While you need to be careful not to fall because of osteoporosis, sarcopenia not only affects quality of life, but also increases blood sugar levels due to insufficient muscle mass!
8. The fastest loss of sarcopenia occurs in the leg muscles!
Because the legs do not move when a person sits or lies down and the strength of the leg muscles is affected ... this is especially important!
Don't let your feet turn black!
So squat at least 20 to 30 times a day. A squat isn't sitting down, it's like sitting on a toilet seat... you can use a chair and stand when your butt touches the seat!
Taiwan's advanced medical system also has health insurance but elderly people in Taiwan spend an average of 8 years in a wheelchair before they die!
And you don't want eight years old when the quality of life is so poor!
You must pay attention to sarcopenia!
Take the stairs... running, cycling and climbing are all great exercise and can build muscle!
For a better quality of life for everyone in old age...
MOVE... DON'T WASTE YOUR MUSCLES!!
Aging starts from the feet upwards!
Keep your legs active and strong!!
▪️As we pass the years and get older every day, our feet should always be active and strong.
As we continue to grow old / getting older, we should not be afraid of gray hair (or) dull skin (or) wrinkles on the face.
▪️ Longevity As summarized by the popular US magazine "Prevention" among the signs of a long fit life, strong leg muscles are listed at the top as the most important and essential.
Please walk every day.
▪️ If you don't move your legs for just two weeks, your actual leg strength will decrease in 10 years.
Just walk
▪️A study from the University of Copenhagen in Denmark found that both young and old, during two weeks of inactivity, leg muscle strength can weaken by a third which is equivalent to aging by 20-30 years !!
so just walk
▪️Because our leg muscles are weakened, it will take a long time to recover even if we rehabilitate and exercise afterwards.
to walk
▪️So regular exercise like walking is very important.
▪️Rest on the feet keeping the weight of the entire body balanced.
▪️ Feet are a type of pillar, which bear the entire weight of the human body.
Walk daily.
▪️Interestingly, 50% of human bones and 50% of muscles are in the two legs.
So walk.
▪️The largest and strongest joints and bones in the human body are also located in the feet.
10,000steps/day
▪️Strong bones, strong muscles and flexible joints form the iron triangle which carries the most important load i.e. the human body.”
▪️ 70% of human activity and energy burn in a person's life is done by two feet.
▪️Did you know this? When a person is young, their thighs are strong enough to lift a small cart weighing 800 kg!
▪️ Feet is the center of body movement.
50% of human body's veins, 50% of blood vessels and 50% of blood flows through both legs.
▪️ It is the largest circulatory network connecting the body.
 So walk everyday.
▪️Only when the legs are healthy, the blood flows smoothly, so people who have strong leg muscles definitely have a strong heart. Walk.
▪️ Aging starts from the feet upwards
▪️As a person gets older, the accuracy and speed of transmission of instructions between the brain and legs decreases, compared to when the person is young. please walk
▪️In addition, the so-called bone fertilizer calcium will be lost sooner or later, making the elderly more prone to bone fractures. Walk.
▪️Bone fractures in the elderly can easily lead to many complications, especially malignancies such as cerebral thrombosis.
▪️Did you know that usually 15% of elderly patients die at most. Thigh bone fracture within a year !! Walk daily without fail
▪️ Leg exercise, even after age 60 is never too late.
▪️Although our feet/legs age slowly over time, exercising the feet/legs is a lifelong task.
Walk 10,000 steps
▪️Only regular foot strengthening can prevent or slow down further aging. walk for 365 days
▪️ Please walk for at least 30-40 minutes every day to ensure that your feet get enough exercise and your leg muscles stay healthy.
Please share this information with all your friends and family members.

Visit this site for technical information.
https://www.aginginmotion.org/about-the-issue/


Sunday, 27 March 2022

Giving up Regret / Regretting

We all commit mistakes. They are inevitable. We regret some of them. They do not drop off even though we wish they be cast away. Here is a way to get rid of them.


Say this three times. Regret will drop off.


Repeat once every so often if necessary

1. Hey my mind listen.

2. I find that you are holding on to this  regret for the mistake committed by me.

3. Please let go of it.

4. I will do all that is necessary in the matter.

5. Thank you.



Saturday, 26 March 2022

Forgiving

 Say this three times. Forgiveness will happen.

Repeat once every so often if necessary


1. Hey my mind listen.


2. I find that you are holding on to this hurt, pain and anger about what ...... did to me / happened to me when I was ........ yrs old / child / teenager / adult


3. Please let go of it.


4. I will do all that is necessary in the matter.


5. Thank you.


Stay rested for some five ten seconds then repeat twice more.

Friday, 11 March 2022

Journey out of Script - a poem

Autobiography in Five Short Chapters

by Portia Nelson

I

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in,
I am lost...I am helpless 
It isn't my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

II

I walk down the same street. 
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. 
I pretend I don't see it
I fall in again
I can't believe I am in the same place. 
But, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

III

I walk down the same street. 
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there I still fall in...it's a habit
My eyes are open. I know where I am.
It is my fault. I get out immediately.

IV

I walk down the same street. 
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

V

I walk down another street.

Friday, 24 December 2021

Forgetting Painful Memories

Address mind thus

Hey my mind. 
Listen. 
I find that you are needlessly occupied with this particular thought / experience about (________). 
I request you to please give it up and return to your state of peace and quietude. 
I will do the needful in the matter. 
Thank you.

Thursday, 7 October 2021

Bramha Majestic Shop No. 57 Details

Hi Magic Bricks Client

Good Evening

MagicBricks has informed me that you are interested in my property.

I am Ajit Karve Owner of Shop No. 57 in Bramha Majestic, NIBM Road Pune.

I am giving photos, layout and details of the property and address with Google Maps location.

I am expecting 1.5 Cr. 

Do let me know if you are interested and would like to see the place.

Thanks very much for showing interest and my regards.

Ajit Karve
7498419787
I request you to call between 
10 and 12.30 in morning and
4.30 and 6.30 in evening

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Address of Property
Asha Institute,
Shop No.57,
Bramha Majestic,
Opp. Kumar Pushpak Building,
Kausar Bagh Masjid Road,
Off. NIBM Road,
Kondwa, Pune 411048
India
latlong for Road Side point for car = 18.476431, 73.893942
18°28'34.9"N 73°53'38.5"E
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Wednesday, 29 September 2021

Brahman, God, Man, Every Cell a Living Whole

There is a beautiful discovery. I am stating it here.
There is a whole comprised of the multiverse.
It has many component universes.
Each universe is a whole comprised of cosmos, celestial space, celestial bodies and galaxies.
Each of these is a living whole.
Let us take the milky way as one of the entities.
The milky way is a living whole.
It is a whole comprised of stars, constellations, asteroids, comets, other objects and galactic space.
Each of these is a living whole.
It is a whole comprised of sub entities.
One sub entity is our solar system. It is a living whole.
It is a whole comprised of planets, moons and several objects in the intervening space and space itself.
Each of these is a living whole.
Take the earth for example. It is a living whole.
Going down the series are humans.
The whole of humanity is a living whole. Each human being is a living whole. Relationships make this whole living.
Going down to cells of the body. Each of them is a living whole with intervening fluids and space.
Then we can go up to the universe. 
Hence the post.

It came to me spontaneously.

This life is prana.
It permeates the multiverse, our universe, our milky way, our solar system, our earth, all entities on earth, all living and non living forms and we humans too. 
Life flows in and out our bodies disguised as breath.
Food is prana. It is life as well. It is consumed and discharged as food though it is carrier of life.

This living universal whole is identified by the labels Brahman and God.

Each of the components of the universes some zillion zillions of them, are also Brahman or God. We too are God disguised in flesh and blood.

Therefore every reason to affectionately promote the throbbing heart that pumps life disguised in so many different ways in each of the entities and in the massive big unconfined multiverses as well.

Tuesday, 28 September 2021

Using TA in Organisational Settings

RECOMMENDATIONS ON THE CONCEPT OF TEAM AS WELL AS HOW AN EFFECTIVE TEAM IS BUILT AND MANAGED CONCEPT OF TEAM
As a team leader of which you were recently appointed as a new manager of the Marketing Department. He is required to make a report on how to manage an ineffective and unproductive team into an effective and productive team.
We need to the concept of team is a group of people with a full set of complementary skills required to complete a task, job, or project. A team becomes more than just a collection of people when a strong sense of mutual commitment creates synergy, thus generating performance greater than the sum of the performance of its individual members.
MANAGING AN EFFECTIVE TEAM
According to Frank LaFasto, when building an effective team, five dynamics are fundamental to team success.

1. The team member: Successful teams are made up of a collection of effective individuals. These are people who are experienced, have problem solving ability, are open to addressing the problem, and are action oriented.

2. Team relationships: For a team to be successful the members of the team must be able to give and receive feedback.

3. Team problem solving: An effective team depends on how focused and clear the goal of the team is. A relaxed, comfortable and accepting environment and finally, open and honest communication are required.

4. Team leadership: Effective team leadership depends on leadership competencies. A competent leader is: focused on the goal, ensures a collaborative climate, builds confidence of team members, sets priorities, demonstrates sufficient ‘know-how’ and manages performance through feedback.

5. Organizational environment: The climate and culture of the organization must be conducive to team behavior. Competitiveness should be discouraged and uniformity should be encouraged – this will eliminate conflict and discord among team members.
Base on the report, we understand the concept of team when others are unable to provide answers. So we are able identified the problems on how to building and managing an effective team. . I hope the management can take my recommendations into consideration.
Thank you.
Yours faithfully,
Team Leader of Marketing Department
Petronas filing Sdn. Bhd.



CONCEPT OF CONFLICT
According to Stephen (1990:2010). Conflict management enhance creative problem solving, enabling people to turn conflict situations into constructive learning opportunities, developing creative and more appropriate solutions, preserving relationships, saving time and money, empowering people to resolve their own disputes and creations of more durable outcomes. In Pennsylvania (USA), for example, the concept of conflict management was employed by the Board of Central Rail Road to avert the negative impact of poor decisions of the company’s management.



PROCESS OF CONFLICT
1. Interpersonal processes can lead to self-fulfilling cycles of interaction, both positive and negative
2. Intrapersonal processes can lead to self-fulfilling cycles of thought and action, both positive and negative
3. Conflicts quickly escalate and become about the conflicts themselves, rather than the underlying issues
4. When pride has been damaged, people seek revenge and go beyond the optimal ‘tit for tat’



RESOLVING CONFLICT IN A TEAM
Here are some actions to taken in resolving conflict in a team in order to effectively deal with team conflict
1. Stop and cool off ‘ There is little point in trying to talk through the issues when both people are upset. Give it a little time and let tempers cool down. Come together when each party has achieved some sort of equilibrium.
2. Have everyone talk and listen to each other ‘ Make sure that nobody is hiding from the issue at hand. Keep everyone talking and expressing themselves honestly and openly.
3. Find out what everyone needs ‘ Sometimes these dialogues can focus on complaints rather than developing solutions. Determine what everyone needs from the situation and strive for a solution where everyone’s needs are met.
4. Brainstorm solutions ‘ Everyone will have their own vision of an ideal outcome for themselves. The challenge will be to avoid forcing our solutions on the conflict situation and allow solutions to emerge out of creative thinking on everyone’s part.
5. Choose the idea that everyone can live with ‘ One of the ways to break from a negative conflict cycle is to find solutions that you all feel are fair under the circumstances.
6. Create a plan and implement it ‘ To make sure that the conflict does not re-emerge, you must make a blueprint. Plan ways of working together that will keep emotional outbursts to a minimum.



Motivational theories
A class of theories about why people do things seeks to reduce the number of factors down to one and explain all behavior through that one factor. For example, economics has been criticized for using self-interest as a mono-motivational theory. Mono-motivational theories are often criticized for being too reductive or too abstract.
Incentive theory
A reward, tangible or intangible, is presented after the occurrence of an action (i.e. behavior) with the intention of causing the behavior to occur again. This is done by associating positive meaning to the behavior. Studies show that if the person receives the reward immediately, the effect is greater, and decreases as delay lengthens. Repetitive action-reward combination can cause the action to become habit. Motivation comes from two sources: oneself, and other people. These two sources are called intrinsic motivation and extrinsic motivation, respectively. Conscious and unconscious motivations.
Conscious and unconscious motivations theory
A number of motivational theories emphasize the distinction between conscious and unconscious motivations. In evolutionary psychology, the “ultimate”, unconscious motivation may be a cold evolutionary calculation, the conscious motivation could be more benign or even positive emotions.
For example, while it may be in the best interest of a male’s genes to have multiple partners and thus break up with or divorce one before moving onto the next, the conscious rationalization could be, “I loved her at the time”.
Freud is associated with the idea that human beings have many unconscious motivations that cause them to make important decisions because of these unconscious forces, such as choosing a partner.
Self-determination theory
Since the early seventies Edward L. Deci and Richard M. Ryan have conducted research that eventually led to the proposition of the self-determination theory (SDT). This theory focuses on the degree to which an individual’s behavior is self-motivated and self-determined. SDT identifies three innate needs that, if satisfied, allow optimal function and growth: competence, relatedness and autonomy. These three psychological needs motivate the self to initiate specific behavior and mental nutriments that are essential for psychological health and well-being. When these needs are satisfied, there are positive consequences, such as well-being and growth, leading people to be motivated, productive and happy. When they are thwarted, people’s motivation, productivity and happiness plummet.
There are three essential elements to the theory:
1. Humans are inherently proactive with their potential and mastering their inner forces (such as drive and emotions).
2. Humans have an inherent tendency towards growth, development and integrated functioning.
3. Optimal development and actions are inherent in humans but they do not happen automatically.
Achievement motivation theory.
Achievement motivation is an integrative perspective based on the premise that performance motivation results from the way broad components of personality are directed towards performance. As a result, it includes a range of dimensions that are relevant to success at work but which are not conventionally regarded as being part of performance motivation. The emphasis on performance seeks to integrate formerly separate approaches as need for achievement with, for example, social motives like dominance. Personality is intimately tied to performance and achievement motivation, including such characteristics as tolerance for risk, fear of failure, and others.
Achievement motivation was studied intensively by David C. McClelland, John W. Atkinson and their colleagues since the early 1950s.Their research showed that business managers who were successful demonstrated a high need to achieve no matter the culture. There are three major characteristics of people who have a great need to achieve according to McClelland’s research.
1. They would prefer a work environment in which they are able to assume responsibility for solving problems.
2. They would take calculated risk and establish moderate, attainable goals.
3. They want to hear continuous recognition, as well as feedback, in order for them to know how well they are doing.

DIFFERENT WAYS AN EMPLOYEE MAY BE MOTIVATED
1. Support new ideas. When employees come to you with an idea or a solution to a problem they believe is for the betterment of the company, it’s a sign that they care. Supporting new ideas and giving an individual the chance to ‘run with it’ is motivating, whether or not it works out in the end.
2. Empower each individual. Every single individual contributes to the bottom line. Empowering them to excel in their role, no matter how large or small, creates a sense of ownership that will lead to meeting and exceeding expectations.
3. Don’t let them become bored. I get bored easily, so I assume my employees also have a short attention span. Host a cupcake bake-off, plan a happy hour, start a push-up contest in the middle of the office on a Wednesday, or allow a different person to run the weekly meetings to break up the monotony.
4. Acknowledge professional achievement. Everyone wants to be recognized. The acknowledgement of a job well done coming from upper management or the owner of the company will mean more to an employee than you think.
5. Listen. This is probably the easiest thing you can do for an employee; yet, it can also be the most difficult. Carving out some time each day to listen to anything from concerns to ideas will not only make your employees happy, it will also provide you with much-needed insight on your business from the people who help keep it running.
6. Encourage friendly competition. A competitive environment is a productive environment. Encouraging employees to participate in competitions or challenges is healthy and may actually lead to increased camaraderie.
7. Allow pets at work. My two dogs come to the office every day, and all of my employees are welcome to bring their pets to work. Pets make people happy and bring a sense of companionship to the office.
8. Reward accomplishments. When a pat on the back or a high five just won’t do, monetary incentives always seem to hit the spot.
9. Create attainable goals. Setting goals are important, but ensuring they aren’t set too loftily by the employer or employee will help determine whether or not the goal is achieved come year-end evaluations.
10. Encourage individuality. Everyone is different. Encouraging individual personalities to shine through will not only help create a diverse and dynamic culture, it will also foster an open and accepting work environment. We have a lot of characters here at JBC ‘ the more the merrier.

Wednesday, 15 September 2021

RBI Directives to Banks about encashing FDs

👆Useful information for joint holders of FDs With "either or survivor"👆
        
         Must read

Most of us have joint FDRs with “either or survivor” operational instruction. We feel that by having joint operational instruction, we will never face any operational difficulty in case of any contingency. Our general presumption is that the other surviving joint holder of FD will have the same operational powers as we enjoy when both of us are alive.
 
But this assumption of ours is far away from the reality. In absence of correct knowledge of exact RBI guidelines, we simply believe that in case of death of any one of the joint FD holders, the surviving one can get it even pre- matured as per his/ her own convenience. Till yesterday morning, I was also under the same impression.

Yesterday, by chance family members of one of our society  flat met me at Union bank and shared their problem of not getting the FDRs of their parents pre- matured. I decided to help them in sorting out the matter and met the Bank manager along with them to pursue him to allow the pre- maturity of FDRs. But when the manager disclosed me the RBI provisions regarding the pre- maturity of FDRs, I was bit surprised and even quite shocked also.

#@ As per RBI guidelines, in case of death of any one of the joint holder of FDR (even having valid nomination also), the surviving joint holder do not have free access to the funds so as to get it pre- matured as per his/ her own will or choice. He/ she can get the final amount only at the time of final maturity of the FDR without any ones interference. Before maturity time, 
for getting it pre- matured, consent of all the legal heirs of deceased FDR holder is must. Means the joint holder do not enjoy the free authority to get the FDRs pre- matured. The surviving FD holder is entitled only at the time of regular maturity of the FDR and not before that.*

👆So, if we have long duration joint FDR, then in case of demise of one of the joint holder, the surviving one can not get the FDRs pre-matured without the consent of all the legal heirs of deceased one. This provision restrict the final authority of any surviving joint holder to use the funds freely in case of need. If any legal heir has any objection or not instantly available, the surviving FD holder will bound to wait till final maturity date or availability of all the legal heirs at a given time.*

# Further never leave your joint holding FDR without nomination as he will be the one to claim the FDR proceeds in case of any contingency with both the FD joint holders, otherwise all the legal heirs will be required to claim the amont. One thing is very clear that here nominee is only the custodian of the Proceeds - not the owner of the amount so handed over to him/ her. If we wish to make the nominee as the sole claimant of FDR proceeds after our death, we should clearly mention this fact in our will also to avoid any future dispute.

@ Hope knowledge of this important provision of RBI will help us in planning the management of our own funds for timely availability thereof at the time of real need...!!!

Thursday, 19 August 2021

How to be free of mindtalk and emotional logjams.

Ending Mindtalk

Address Mind as follows

Hey my mind. I love you, I like you, I admire you, I adore you. Listen. Please let go of this pre-occupation with mind-talk. Just give it up. Please give it up and return to your state of peace and quietude. I will do the needful in the matter. Thank you.

Freedom from Emotional Log-jams

Address mind as follows:

Hey my mind. I love you, I like you, I admire you, I adore you. Listen. Please let go of this pre-occupation with hyped feeling of <name of feeling / emotion>. Just give it up. Please give it up and return to your state of peace and quietude. I will do the needful in the matter. Thank you.

Wednesday, 9 June 2021

Symbiosis from Bernian Perspective

This is a text from Berne's Hello Book that has a bearing with Symbiosis. Do we need the topic of Symbiosis to understand it in the Classical TA Frame.


These are the ones described above, Type I (AA–CP), the transference reaction; and Type II (AA–PC), the counter-transference reaction; plus Type III (CP–AA), the ‘exasperating response,’ where someone who wants sympathy gets facts instead, and Type IV (PC–AA), ‘impudence,’ where someone who expects compliance gets what he considers a ‘smart aleck’ response instead, in the form of a factual statement.

Procrustes and Unicorn

Procrustes and Unicorn in script-bound persons and also among professionals including therapists.


Script-bound people are given to justifying, protecting and professing own view to be the only one.¹ It not only applies to any conclusion it also applies to their thinking and feeling log-jams.² The feelings here are rackets for which the affected person works for.³ Eric Berne uses terms Procrustes and Unicorn to explain this. In Procrustes, the information is stretched or cut down to fit the hypothesis or diagnosis. In the Unicorn, the hypothesis or diagnosis is stretched or cut down to fit the recalcitrant data.⁴ It not only applies to script affected persons, it applies to professionals as well. Berne points out that "the therapist picks out a fairy tale prematurely, and then stretches the patient or cuts him down so that he will fit it." Procrustes is very common in all the behavioral sciences.⁵ Berne identifies their relevance in literature by saying that : Procrustes is still the patron saint of sociology, as the Unicorn is of psychology.⁶ 


 Notes:

1. Justifying, protecting and professing own view are manifestations of Procrustes and Unicorn.

2. Thinking and feeling log-jams are experienced by all especially when we are hurt, pained, insulted, embarrassed and following cross-ups in games. Helplessness, confusion, indecision and intra-psychic conflicts are also notable variants.

3. Berne writes in Hello pg. 165 on rackets to say : During this period, Jeder also makes a definite decision about what kind of feelings he will work for.

4. Hello pg.451

5. ibid 451

6. ibid 452

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Ajit Karve

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Monday, 28 December 2020

All about Covid Vacciine

 

Compiled by DR ARUN WADHWA, MD (Paediatrics).

 

Dr Raghvendra Rao from Bangalore has sent a useful post, regarding Covid Vaccination ... answering all possible Questions we might’ve. You may like to check it out, if you have any:_ 


FAQ’s on Covid Vaccines:


1. When is the Corona vaccine likely to be available?


Probably the Government will get it by January and the private market by March.


2. Do we all need to take it?


Yes, all should take it.


3. Who will get it first?


It will be prioritised. First frontline workers and first responders like paramedical staff, civil servants, police, army, politicians and their relatives will get it first.


People more than 50 years of age and those with co-morbidities like diabetes, HT, transplant and chemotherapy patients will get it next.


Then will be healthy adults, teenagers, children and last neonates if at all.


4. How will it be given?


_Through public and private centres, by Doctors, Dentists, Nurses and trained paramedics.


*_5. What is the recommended dose and schedule?


*_Two doses given 21 days or 28 days apart depending on vaccine used.


*_6. What if I take only one dose?


*_One dose will give you only partial protection of may be 60-80% and will not last long enough. For complete protection you must take two doses at recommended intervals.


*_7. What if I forget to take the second dose?


*_Should I take the first again?


*_Just take the second dose at the earliest. No need to repeat the first dose.


*_8. Are both doses same?


*_In most of the vaccines it will be the same dose given twice.


*_However, Sputnik- V vaccine has both doses as different vector viruses, so will be marked as dose 1 and 2.


*_Oxford-AZ vaccine may also come out with first dose as half dose.


*_9. Do you need to take it even if you had Corona?


*_After how many days of getting cured?

 

*_Yes. But that will be last in the priority list. You can let others take who probably need more than you.


*_You might need it earlier if you did not develop an antibody response.


*_10. Can it be administered to an individual who has received plasma as treatment for Covid?


_The donor plasma contains anti Covid-19 antibodies and may suppress the immune response to the vaccine.


*_As it is, those who have recovered from Covid-19 may not need the vaccine in the early phases.


*_11. Can a pregnant lady or a lactating mother take the vaccine?


*_No company has yet tested the vaccine in pregnancy. CDC has advised against giving the vaccine to pregnant and lactating mothers.


*_UK authorities have advised women not to get pregnant for two months after the shot.


_Since the vaccines available till now are not live vaccines, it should not cause any problem if given inadvertently.


*_12. Can a Diabetic patient take the vaccine?


*_Yes, in fact diabetes has been established as a risk factor for severe disease and all diabetic patients must get vaccinated on priority.


*_13. If offered a choice of vaccines, which one should I take?


_All vaccines are offering equal efficacy although local reactions may be different.

Take whatever available. Think positive that at least you are being offered a vaccine ahead of others.


*_Indian manufactured vaccines will be more suitable for our population as they are cheaper and can be kept at 2-8 degree Celsius.


_The mRNA vaccines require a storing temp of -70 (Pfizer) and -20 (Moderna) which may be difficult to maintain in summer months.


*_14. How many days after getting vaccine, would I develop protection?


*_Best protection starts 10 days after second dose. Efficacy is around 70-90% against all severity and 100% against hospitalization.


*_Immediate aim is to prevent hospitalisation and mortality.


*_15. How long will the vaccine provide immunity?


_It is a new virus, new technology vaccine, so we don't know. After follow-ups of these vaccinated population and their antibodies for a couple of years, we would be wiser._


_The need for boosters and when will they be required, will be decided after these follow ups and mathematical modelling.


*_16. Children of what age can be vaccinated?


*_Is the dose same as adults or lesser dose to be given?


*_Trials done till now have been for adults above 18 only.


_Now trials for children above 12 have started.


_Doses will be decided only after trials are done on younger children and infants.


*_17. Can it be given to immuno compromised individuals?


_The mRNA vaccine and inactivated vaccines are safe.


_AZ and Sputnik-V adenovirus vector vaccines are also safe as they are non replicating viral vector vaccines.


*_Live vaccines and replicating viral vector vaccines will have to be avoided.


*_18. What are the side effects expected?


*_The side effects reported by the trial population are mostly mild Covid like symptoms like some fever and fatigue.


*_Local injection site pain and induration is also reported.


*_Reports of transverse myelitis and facial palsy have not been found to be related to the vaccine.


*_Generally, all vaccines are safe. Although these vaccines have been made in record time, the testing methodology and procedures have not been compromised.


*_19. I am allergic to egg. Can I take the vaccine?


_Egg cell lines are not used for production of these vaccines. They can be taken safely even if you are allergic to egg.


*_20. I heard that it has pig or monkey products? I am a pure Vegetarian.


_The new vaccines manufactured these days are devoid of any such products.


*_21. In the past vaccines have been linked to Autism. What about these?


*_In 1985 there was a paper linking MMR with autism. Millions of children followed up after that have conclusively proven that there is no relationship between vaccines and autism.


*_All vaccines are extremely safe with minimal temporary side effects.


*_22. There are messages going around that mRNA from vaccine gets incorporated into the human genome and alter our genetic structure. Is that true?


*_mRNA vaccine carries a message to the cell to produce spike protein which induces antibody production. It does what it is directed to do. Till date there have been no adverse events reported.


*_23. What is the interaction of alcohol and Covid vaccine?


*_Excessive alcohol can reduce the immune responses to vaccines. Since Russians are known for heavy drinking, their Government has advised to avoid drinking two weeks prior to first dose and 6 weeks after the second dose.


_The Sputnik vaccine is given as two doses 21 days apart.


*_Occasional glass of wine or beer will not interfere with the immune response.


*_24. Soon the virus will mutate and we will need another vaccine. Should we not wait?


*_Till now the virus has not shown tendency to mutate like the Flu virus.


*_Moreover, the vaccines being developed have taken this into consideration and should still work.


*_25. What if I do not want to take the vaccine? Will it be made mandatory?


*_In majority of countries, it will not be mandatory. You have to choose between the new viral disease with no specific treatment and a new vaccine. Choice is yours.


_As initially there will be a huge demand supply gap, by not taking a vaccine you can help others.


*_26. If I fall in the category of priority list by being a senior citizen or with a co-morbid condition, how do I contact the appropriate vaccination authority?


*_Soon there will be a website and an app ‘CoWIN’ where you will be able to register with your relevant details.


*_27. What is CoWIN?


_It is the world’s first, digital, end to end, vaccine distribution and management system. It includes beneficiary registration, authentication, document verification, session allocation, AEFI reporting and certificate generation.


_Once the vaccine is available, it will generate a SMS informing the beneficiary.


_The vaccine centre itself will be managed by five people and will give maximum 100 vaccines per day.


*_The vaccine recipient has to wait for 30 minutes before leaving the centre post-vaccination.


*_28. What are the different types of Corona vaccines likely to be available for use in near future?


_Covishield, by Serum Institute of India (Oxford AstraZeneca) is a non- replicating viral vector vaccine. These are viruses that have been modified to act as delivery systems that carry the viral antigens to our immune cells.


_Chimpanzee adenovirus is the vector used to deliver the corona virus antigen in the SII vaccine


_...and human adenoviruses in Sputnik V (Russian vaccine, made in India by Dr Reddy’s lab).


_Covaxin, by Bharat Biotech India Ltd is a whole cell inactivated vaccine.


_Most of the current vaccines being used in Pediatric immunization, are made by this technology.


*_Since these are killed viruses, they produce immunity, but cannot cause the disease.


_Pfizer and Moderna vaccines from USA, consist of messenger RNA molecules. They carry the code message which induces the human cell to manufacture spike protein of the Corona virus. These proteins are recognised by our immune system to produce antibodies.


_Other Indian companies like Biological E, Cadila Healthcare and Genova are also in advanced stage of vaccine development.


*_29. Can I roam around without a mask once I am vaccinated?


*_No, not as of now. One may do so only when the majority of the population has either got the disease or received the vaccine.


_This means the population has developed herd immunity.


*_30. Are newer and better Covid vaccines expected in near future?


_As of December 2020, more than 250 vaccines are under trial in different phases. A lot of research is underway to develop newer delivery methods also.


*_Nasal spray vaccine is probably the most promising. A multi dose nasal spray delivery device can be very convenient and economical. It will produce local IgA antibodies and block the virus at entry itself.


*_It will reduce nasal colonisation and thus prevent transmission of disease also.


*_Unfortunately, since it will be a live vaccine, it will need maximum and most stringent trials and thus will take longest time to hit the market.


*_Covid-19 is still a new disease and we are still learning. The facts mentioned above are as of 14 December 2020.


*_Please re-check the facts before taking a Covid vaccine shot.


*_No vaccine gives 100% protection. Also, a vaccinated person may not develop disease but may transmit it to others.


*_Please continue to wear mask, observe physical distance and sanitize hands for some more time. Stay safe.



Thursday, 29 October 2020

Positive Emotions

 


Positive Emotions

PositivePsychology.com

Positive Emotions: A List of 26 Examples + Definition in Psychology

Most people like to feel good, and positive emotions just plain feel good. They don’t necessarily need a reason or cause behind them for us to enjoy them; we just do.

Experiencing emotions like happiness, excitement, joy, hope, and inspiration is vital for anyone who wants to lead a happy and healthy life.

Luckily, you don’t need to experience them all the time to reap the benefits of positive emotions. These often-fleeting moments can be the ones that make all the hard work and struggling in life worth it, the spice that brings flavor to your life.

Before you read on, we thought you might like to download our 3 Positive Psychology Exercises for free. These science-based exercises will explore fundamental aspects of positive psychology including strengths, values and self-compassion and will give you the tools to enhance the wellbeing of your clients, students or employees.

You can download the free PDF here.

 

What are Positive Emotions? A Definition

Before diving too deep into positive emotions, we should start by making sure we’re all on the same page about emotions—and positive emotions in particular.

Positive emotions are not simply “happy feelings” that we chase to feel momentary pleasure; like the more negative emotions, they play a significant role in everyday life.

There are many ways to define “emotion,” but they generally fall into one of two camps:

  1. Emotions are a state or feeling that cannot be conjured up at will, or;
  2. Emotions are attitudes or responses to a situation or an object, like judgments (Zemach, 2001).

 

Most current scholars fall into the second camp, viewing emotions as the outcome or result of something, provoked by action, or by being on the receiving end of an action. The implications of embracing one view over the other are fascinating, but for the purposes of understanding positive emotions and their role in psychology, it’s not necessary to choose between the two camps; whether we can consciously choose our positive emotions or whether they are a direct result of some action or experience, it is mainly their effects that are of interest to the positive psychology practitioner.

What are Positive Emotions? A Definition

Narrowing down to positive emotions, there are two popular ways of defining them that loosely correspond to the two camps noted above. They have been defined as “multicomponent response tendencies” that last a short period of time (Fredrickson, 2001), aligning roughly with the second view, and as mental experiences that are both intense and pleasurable (Cabanac, 2002), adhering more closely to the first view.

Whichever definition you think fits best, the most important things we need to know about them are (a) which emotions they are, (b) what is their purpose or point, (c) how we can improve our experience of them, either in quantity or quality, and (d) what effects they have on us.

 

Positive Emotion Words People Use

Let’s dive right into Point A: which emotions are positive.

The list of positive emotions that people experience is nearly endless. Not all of these words refer to emotions as scholars understand them, but they are the words most often used by people in describing their own emotions, which gives us a good foundation for positive emotions as they are commonly experienced.

  • Joy – a sense of elation, happiness, and perhaps even exhilaration, often experienced as a sudden spike due to something good happening.
  • Gratitude – a feeling of thankfulness, for something specific or simply all-encompassing, often accompanied by humility and even reverence.
  • Serenity – a calm and peaceful feeling of acceptance of oneself.
  • Interest – a feeling of curiosity or fascination that demands and captures your attention.
  • Hope – a feeling of optimism and anticipation about a positive future.
  • Pride – a sense of approval of oneself and pleasure in an achievement, skill, or personal attribute.
  • Amusement – a feeling of lighthearted pleasure and enjoyment, often accompanied by smiles and easy laughter.
  • Inspiration – feeling engaged, uplifted, and motivated by something you witnessed.
  • Awe – an emotion that is evoked when you witness something grand, spectacular, or breathtaking, sparking a sense of overwhelming appreciation.
  • Elevation – the feeling you get when you see someone engaging in an act of kindness, generosity, or inner goodness, spurring you to aspire to similar action.
  • Altruism – usually referred to as an act of selflessness and generosity towards others, but can also describe the feeling you get from helping others.
  • Satisfaction – a sense of pleasure and contentment you get from accomplishing something or fulfilling a need.
  • Relief – the feeling of happiness you experience when an uncertain situation turns out for the best, or a negative outcome is avoided.
  • Affection – an emotional attachment to someone or something, accompanied by a liking for them and a sense of pleasure in their company.
  • Cheerfulness – a feeling of brightness, being upbeat and noticeably happy or chipper; feeling like everything is going your way.
  • Surprise (the good kind!) – a sense of delight when someone brings you unexpected happiness or a situation goes even better than you had hoped.
  • Confidence – emotion involving a strong sense of self-esteem and belief in yourself; can be specific to a situation or activity, or more universal.
  • Admiration – a feeling of warm approval, respect, and appreciation for someone or something.
  • Enthusiasm – a sense of excitement, accompanied by motivation and engagement.
  • Eagerness – like a less intense form of enthusiasm; a feeling of readiness and excitement for something.
  • Euphoria – intense and the all-encompassing sense of joy or happiness, often experienced when something extremely positive and exciting happens.
  • Contentment – peaceful, comforting, and low-key sense of happiness and well-being.
  • Enjoyment – a feeling of taking pleasure in what is going on around you, especially in situations like a leisure activity or social gathering.
  • Optimism – positive and hopeful emotion that encourages you to look forward to a bright future, one in which you believe that things will mostly work out.
  • Happiness – a feeling of pleasure and contentment in the way things are going; a general sense of enjoyment of and enthusiasm for life.
  • Love – perhaps the strongest of all positive emotions, love is a feeling of deep and enduring affection for someone, along with a willingness to put their needs ahead of your own; it can be directed towards an individual, a group of people, or even all humanity.

 

This list captures a good deal of the positive emotions we experience, but it’s certainly not an exhaustive list—I’m sure you can think of at least one or two more!

Now that we have an idea of the kinds of emotions we’re talking about, we can move on to another important question: what’s the point?

 

Why do We Need Positive Emotions? What Good are They?

Why do We Need Positive Emotions? What Good are They?

Aside from simply feeling good, positive emotions are also an important piece of the happiness puzzle.

While you will probably not achieve lasting happiness and well-being based on temporary, hedonic pleasure alone, positive emotions often provide the foundation for those fleeting but meaningful moments that make life worth living; for example, the joy of saying “I do” to your significant other, the love that overwhelms you upon holding your newborn for the first time, or the immense satisfaction you get from achieving something great in your career.

Although positive emotions may seem to have little purpose besides making us “feel good,” they actually do a few very important jobs.

The Role of Positive Emotions in Psychology

The “point” of positive emotions depends on who you ask; you will likely get a different answer from experts in different fields.

An evolutionary psychologist might respond “to enhance human beings’ chances of survival and reproduction.”

A social psychologist might say “to form the bonds that connect us to others.”

A positive psychologist may say “to make life worth living.”

Or, she might say “to broaden our awareness and build our inner resources.” That is the gist of Barbara Fredrickson’s groundbreaking “Broaden-and-Build Theory” of positive emotions. Read on to learn more about this theory.

 

A Short Summary of Fredrickson’s Broaden-and-Build Theory

Fredrickson introduced the Broaden-and-Build Theory of positive emotions in 1998. The theory provides a convincing explanation of the “point” of positive emotions: to open our minds, broaden and expand our awareness, and facilitate the building and development of resources, including knowledge, skills, abilities, and relationships.

In the words of Fredrickson herself:

“…these positive emotions broaden an individual’s momentary thought-action repertoire: joy sparks the urge to play, interest sparks the urge to explore, contentment sparks the urge to savour and integrate, and love sparks a recurring cycle of each of these urges within safe, close relationships.” (2004, p. 1367).

The effects of these emotions are in sharp contrast to the effects of negative emotions, or those experienced in a dangerous situation (e.g., fear, terror, anxiety), which usually have the effect of narrowing our focus and limiting our myriad options to the one or two best suited for survival. In such situations, these automatic responses are vital for ensuring that we make it out alive; however, in situations that are not life-threatening, we don’t need such a narrow perspective or limiting of options.

This is where positive emotions are more advantageous—instead of limiting our scope, they expand it to allow for creative thought and action. Instead of narrowing our focus to one or two responses, they expand our awareness to take in the much wider array of responses we can choose from.

A Short Summary of Fredrickson's Broaden-and-Build Theory

This broadening of our horizons allows us to play, to learn, and to acquire lasting knowledge and skills that we can carry with us throughout our lives. These resources may be physical, emotional, psychological, social, and even mental, but no matter what kind of resources we acquire through this broadening, they are enduring.

These resources acquired and developed through experiencing positive emotions have been shown to result in many benefits throughout the several domains of life.

In the all-encompassing domain of physical and psychological health, positive emotions can have fantastic effects.

 

The Health Benefits of Positive Emotions

Among the many health benefits of positive emotions is a reduction in stress and a boost to general well-being. Positive emotions can actually act as a buffer between you and stressful events in your life, allowing you to cope more effectively and preserve your mental health (Tugade, Fredrickson, & Barrett, 2004). In addition, in 2006 researchers confirmed that experiencing positive emotions helps you modulate your reaction to stress and allows you to recover from the negative effects of stress more quickly (Ong, Bergeman, Bisconti, & Wallace).

Positive emotions may also protect you from the sniffles! Students who were randomly assigned to writing about intense, positive experiences for three days, 20 minutes a day, made significantly fewer visits to the student health center for symptoms of illness, compared to students who wrote about a neutral topic (Burton & King, 2004).

Experiencing positive emotions may also encourage individuals to make healthier decisions, indirectly contributing to better health. Herzenstein (2008) found that several positive emotions lead to a variety of health benefits, including:

  • Happiness resulted in increased risk- and variety-seeking and gain-focused behavior and,
  • Contentment resulted in increased risk avoidance and loss-focused behavior.

 

Positive emotions can also facilitate more effective coping, which boosts health by providing a buffer against symptoms of depression (Dolphin, Steinhardt, & Cance, 2015). In addition, being mindful and taking the time to savor positive emotions can provide an extra buffer against symptoms of depression while boosting psychological well-being and life satisfaction (Kiken, Lundberg, & Fredrickson, 2017).

Another health benefit of positive emotions is that they may result in a stronger heart; Kok and colleagues (2013) found a connection between a healthy heart rate and the experience of positive social emotions. Similarly, a meta-analysis of several studies found that well-being was significantly related to good cardiovascular functioning, general health, and longevity overall (Howell, Kern, & Lyubomirsky, 2007).

 

How Positive Emotions Foster Resilience and Improve Memory

How Positive Emotions Foster Resilience and Improve Memory

In addition to promoting good physical and psychological health, positive emotions have been found to relate to both resilience and memory.

A study from Peng and colleagues (2014) found that positive emotions and resilience are positively correlated, indicating that one leads to the other or they share a bi-directional relationship. We also know that resilience is significantly related to emotional regulation, suggesting that the experience of many positive emotions (and the management of negative emotions) allows some individuals to “bounce back” better than others (Tugade & Fredrickson, 2004). Finally, a study by Cohn and colleagues found that positive emotions have a direct effect on resilience, which in turn helps build a strong sense of life satisfaction (2009).

These effects may be due to the “broadening and building” that positive emotions seem to provoke; the more positive emotions a person experiences, the stronger their perception of a positive baseline state to “bounce back” to after failure or tragedy. Additionally, experiencing consistent positive emotions might encourage a person to seek out a wide variety of sources of meaning and fulfillment, sources they can depend on to pull them back up to their feet when they get knocked down.

Overall, there is evidence to suggest that positive emotions can protect against memory impairment (MacKenzie, Powell, & Donaldson, 2015). It is unclear how this protection may work, although it may be explained through the Broaden-and-Build Theory as well. Positive emotions may expand focus and memory capacity and enhance the ability to remember both central and peripheral details (Yegiyan & Yonelinas, 2011).

Both enhanced resilience and better memory can provide benefits in many domains of life, including in the workplace. In fact, there are several ways that positive emotions can lead to better productivity and more effective work.

 

How Positive Emotions Can Improve the Workplace

Positive emotions have been shown to have a positive impact on relationships (romantic, friends, and family), therapy and counseling outcomes, grades and academic achievements, and personal development (Linley, Joseph, Maltby, Harrington, & Wood, 2009); now we can add one more domain to this list—the workplace.

As much as we may try to separate them, our emotions and personal life do have an impact on our work. Luckily, this can work in positive as well as negative ways. Positive emotions have led to enhancements and improvements in work life, physical and mental health, social relationships, community involvement, and income (Danner, Snowdon, & Friesen, 2001; Lyubomirsky, King, & Diener, 2005), all of which are either directly or indirectly related to work.

Enhancing Employee Engagement

A recent study by Goswami, Nair, Beehr, and Grossenbacher (2016) cemented the relationship between positive emotions and employee engagement—as well as showing a link between leaders’ use of humor and employee engagement!

Further, positive emotions encouraged organizational citizenship behavior (an employee’s voluntary commitment to non-obligatory or non-mandatory tasks that benefit his or her organization) as well as increasing work engagement; additionally, they had a double positive impact by decreasing negative attitudes and behaviors that are not in line with organizational values (Avey, Wernsing, & Luthans, 2008).

Improving Job Satisfaction

Positive emotions have been found to result in increased self-efficacy, higher job satisfaction, and better mental health in general (Schutte, 2014). They have even been shown to connect to higher job satisfaction during task conflict (Todorova, Bear, & Weingart, 2014).

More specifically, the positive emotions of interest and gratitude are linked to enhanced satisfaction with one’s work, while gratitude also positively impacts satisfaction with one’s coworkers and supervisors (Winslow, Hu, Kaplan, & Li, 2017). The same study that produced these results also found that both interest and gratitude predict an employee’s satisfaction with his or her promotion.

Not only do positive emotions enhance satisfaction with the job, they also reduce turnover intentions and reduce the effects of stress on employees (Sui, Cheung, & Lui, 2015).

These findings are intuitive; it makes sense that experiencing more positive emotions at work, like joy, interest, gratitude, and happiness, increases satisfaction with the work. Greater satisfaction with work has a clear and direct relationship with intentions to stay with the position.

How Positive Emotions Can Improve the Workplace

Effective Leadership

Positive emotions in the workplace can facilitate more effective leadership as well as increasing job satisfaction.

A study from 2013 surveyed followers to assess the relationship between transformational leadership and positive emotions on the one hand, and the impact on task performance on the other; the study found that transformational leadership and positive emotions have a positive effect on task performance (Liang & Steve Chi, 2013). Not only was transformational leadership’s effect on performance enhanced, but its impact on work engagement was also found to be enhanced by positive emotions (Wang, Li, & Li, 2017).

Similarly, authentic leadership was found to lead to more effective innovation in followers when coupled with positive emotions (Zhou, Ma, Cheng, & Xia, 2014). Another style of leadership, known as intellectual stimulator leadership, is more effective in boosting employee job satisfaction, effort, and effectiveness when positive emotions like enthusiasm, hope, pride, happiness, and inspiration complement the leadership (Zineldin, 2017).

Enhancing the Company’s Bottom Line

When employees experience positive emotions at work, they experience a broadening of perspective and may be able to build important resources.

Early research on the effects of positive emotion on employee achievement and productivity found that the more positive emotion an individual experienced on the job, the higher their pay and better their supervisor evaluations were 18 months later (Staw, Sutton, & Pelled, 1994). Staw and colleagues also found that MBA students with higher positive emotions performed more accurately on a decision-making task than students with lower levels of positive emotions (1993).

Further research found that increased positive emotions resulted in increased clarity surrounding expectations in one’s role, effective and value-congruent use of organizational resources, fulfillment in one’s role, better relationships at work, and a general increase in the ownership employees feel over their work and the creativity that drives innovation and contributes to organizational success (Harter, Schmidt, & Keyes, 2002). Additionally, the expression and amplification of positive emotions can lead to enhanced goal attainment, whether the expression of emotions is directed towards co-workers or superiors (Wong, Tschan, Messerli, & Semmer, 2013).

Finally, positive emotions (in the form of hope, optimism, and resilience) were found to not only increase job satisfaction, work happiness, and organizational commitment, but also to improve employee performance, measured by both self-report and organizational performance appraisals (Youssef & Luthans, 2007).

 

A Take-Home Message

There has never been more interest in positive emotions and their effect on our lives—and for good reason!

Positive emotions are linked to numerous benefits in relationships, in one’s health and well-being, and in the workplace. Keep an eye out for news on positive emotions, and you will be keeping up with a bright and vibrant area of research.

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About the Author

Courtney Ackerman, MSc., is a graduate of the positive organizational psychology and evaluation program at Claremont Graduate University. She is currently working as a researcher for the State of California and her professional interests include survey research, well-being in the workplace, and compassion.