Reflections of Ajit Karve

Thursday, 25 June 2020

Engineering Self Change

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Our beliefs about ourselves, about others and our life's quality affects us most.  EFT Emotional Freedom Technique is a method to effect...
Wednesday, 24 June 2020

Sources of Affect

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Sources of affect are the many things that trigger a shift in our  thinking - feeling states and cause us to either respond or to engage in ...

Two Chair Method for Self Improvement

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A key  method  used in  Gestalt therapy  is the Empty  Chair Technique . This simple  approach  is designed to allow you to work through int...

Understanding our Real Self Intelectually

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What we call self is viewed in many ways. The way defines the understanding of what we call self. And besides each way has many schools. Eac...

How is IQ Measured

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IQ means Intelligence Quotient. Intelligence is our capacity to know, learn and understand any particular thing like words, calculations, sh...

Parameters that best describe ourselves

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Education Dependability Trustworthiness Sociability Reputation Trustworthiness Beliefs about self, others, life itself and quality of life. ...

Psychiatrists, Therapists, Counsellors, Psychologists

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Psychiatrist - for medical treatment of mind, behaviour, personality, coping, psychological, behavioural problems. Counselling - Provides E...
Tuesday, 23 June 2020

Persons who have Inspired me

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These are the many persons who have been my inspiration in my life and have helped in contributing to building my personality, character, sk...

Problem Analysis

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Pro blem Analysis By defining what it creates Situation, Problem, Difficulty, Condition, Challenge, Circumstance or Dilemma. Each of these h...

Some one liners of worth

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Self help is the best help. One thing at a time, and that done well, is a very good thing, that many can tell. Man purposes, God disposes. N...

Dealing with fear

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Fear is a feeling. It increases when we do not get rid of it. It grows into anxiety and thence into despair. It is easy to get rid of fear, ...
Monday, 22 June 2020

Habits - Formation and Practicing them

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Habit defined in a dictionary A behaviour pattern  regularly followed till it becomes involuntary. A disposition toward self, others, things...
Sunday, 21 June 2020

Where does Emancipation lie?

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Good visualisation . Delusion is occurrence. Clarity is tool. Realisation is the objective. It's goal and becoming. Seek it. Become it.

How to be Enlightened

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To become enlightened? Find answers to these questions. What is 'I'? Who am I? What is me? Which I is indestructable? What is realis...

Skill Defined

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Skill is an essential quality that converts activity into an end product.

What for do I love my father / cherished memories

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Riding on the bike seated behind him - to the chor bazar in Mumbai every so often, to Pune and watching lighting of buildings in Mumbai duri...

Silencing our Mind

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We can silence our mind at will by asking these two questions and then saying no. Question 1. What is this mind thinking? Explore for 10 to ...

Powers of our mind you can use

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These are some of the things I have learnt through exploration and practice. We can actualise thoughts by thinking in given ways. We can sto...
Saturday, 20 June 2020

Being Unbeatable

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Being Unbeatable Being ordinary. As yet, incorporating extraordinary talent, skills, knowledge and learning. Being modest. As yet pursuing e...

Method of knowing oneself better

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Knowing our better results when we know Our IQ. Personality Type. Personality Traits. Our VAK Hierarchy Our Compulsive Behaviours. Our Inhib...

Habits we can incorporate when we are young in age

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Only one skill : 'How to think”. One talent : “Work Hard”. One Goal : “To succeed in every enterprise”. One quality : “Dare to be differ...

Why does our interest in people and things change over time.

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I think our interest in partners, people, topics, things and generally is on account of changes in our hormonal, biological, sexual, orienta...

Factors Affecting Skill Development in Teenagers

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Seven factors that affect skill devlopment in teenagers are: 1.Generation Gap 2. Emotional Instability 3. Lack of Career Consciousness 4. Im...

There is a Time Machine

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There is a time machine which is closely guarded secret in the Vatican in Rome. It is called the chronovisor. This is s link to a rather len...

Different types of Anger

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A friend asked me at what point is anger born / what triggers anger. I penned a reply which I am reproducing here. Anger is not born. Either...

Starts in Mind. Ends in Action

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Manage Mind All Will Be Fine Need generates want.  Want generates desire.  Desire generates urge. Urge generates impulse. Impulse generates ...
Friday, 19 June 2020

How do we Live our Lives

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This is copy of an answer I gave on Quora to title question. I think we live our life stressfully, responsively, accommodatingly, giving or ...

How practice helps in learning

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Our brain is gifted with neurogenesis, neuroplasticity and neuro synthesis. The more we use or apply a certain part of our body or capacity ...

Does Optimism Work

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This was a question on Quora that I answered today. I am repeating my answer here. Quote:  "Question : Does Optimism work in real life?...

The Art of Living

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The art of living lies in achieving much excellence without owned action. Being nobody, doing nothing, going nowhere as yet becoming (identi...
Thursday, 18 June 2020

Our Self - Another View

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Our Self - Another View We use the word self mainly in these contexts. I, myself. We, ourselves.   You, yourself. You, yourselves. He, she, ...
Wednesday, 17 June 2020

Qualities of a Persecuting Person

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The qualities of a persecuting person are in sharp contrast to those of a controlling person. A persecuting person  in Transactional Analysi...

Qualities of a Controlling Person

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A controlling person in Transactional Analysis frame upholds value, worth, dignity and esteem of self and another, provides for safety and s...
Tuesday, 16 June 2020

What is Intelligence

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It is the capacity to / for Know Learn Understand Logic Interpret Planning Resolving Imagining Awareness Critical Thinking Imagination - Con...

Consciousness

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Indian Philosophy says there is one consciousness - equivalent to water as an example. Water in the glacier, melting ice, river at source, m...
Monday, 15 June 2020

Why I like cycling

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I am a cyclist and cycling lover myself. I ride for pleasure for around an hour and also when I go out bazar shopping. I recommend it for th...
Sunday, 14 June 2020

Problem Solving 2

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This diagram from one of my other blogs is a great tool  in problem solving. I will gladly send it to you. All you have to do is copy paste ...

Problem Solving

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What is the problem. How is it a problem. Who / What is affected by it. What is the nature of affect. What benefit will the solution lend. W...
Friday, 12 June 2020

Character Building Assertions

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Courage Bravery I act on my convictions. I face threats, challenges, difficulties with a balanced mind. I am able to redress my doubts and f...
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I am a science graduate, I am a degree holder in Transactional Analysis from ICTA, Kochi, India. I am proprietor of Asha Institute - Pune, I practice psychotherapy,
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